Watching the tribute by Billy Crystal for Robin Williams on The Emmy’s Monday night brought back all my sadness over his loss. For me the sadness goes so much deeper than just the loss of an amazingly gifted actor but that depression took away his realization of just how special he was.
As many of you already know, from being part of my e-mailings back in 2010, I have been living with Diagnosed Major Depression for many years. Too many people keep their depression a secret as I did for a very long time and in doing so they loose the understanding & support of friends and family who can’t understand your behavior. That support is so important in order to remind you over and over again how much life is worth living and that there are people in your life whom you are important to.
I myself was at one of my lowest points in a while on that Sunday right before he died, but hearing on the news the next day about his suicide was a wake-up call reminding me that nothing in life is worth ending it like that. There are always people who love you and depend on you even when you have a hard time recognizing them.
I hope his life and his death will bring this realization to a lot of people suffering as he did. More than that, I hope it will make the world more aware and understanding of people’s struggles. Depression is a disease, it has symptoms and causes debilitation the same way other diseases do, so reach out the same way you would to anyone who has a serious disease. You’ll be surprised how much of a difference you can make in their life.